Women have been advised to let go of negative emotions and experiences to manage depression, which was increasingly affecting their mental health, relationships, and overall well-being.
The Founder, The Excellent and Dignified Woman (TED-Woman) an interdenominational gathering of women, Mrs Busola Lanre-Oke gave the advised during a women forum in Abuja.
The event, themed “Managing Depression in Various Life Stages and Situations,” aimed to raise awareness and provide support for women struggling with mental health issues.
Lanre-Oke, who doubled as the Convener emphasised the need to release emotional burdens, citing anxiety, betrayals, and unfulfilled expectations as common triggers for depression.
She encouraged women to address what they could control, stay active, and seek help when necessary.
According to her, idleness can also lead to depression. You need to get something doing. There is an adage that says “An idle mind is the devil’s workshop.”
“Get to work. Personally, I do not support the idea of a full house wife.
“Do something, sell something, even if your husband place you on a monthly salary, you can still get yourself busy by engaging in any skills or selling even recharge cards.
“When you are idle, you are prone to depression. It is also importance of letting go of negative emotions and experiences and stay active to combat stress and depression,”.
Also speaking, a medical expert, Dr Samuel Abah shared valuable insights on managing depression in various life stages and situations.
Abah stressed that depression could affect anyone, regardless of age, and emphasised the need for prevention and early intervention.
He noted that women were more prone to depression than men, especially during menopause.
“Depression is common among women than men. Both young children that are female and younger women. As long as you are a woman, you have been exposed to depression.
“Learn to overlook things. Learn to rest and give yourself rest. If you can do these things; you won’t have depression.
“Take care of your health. Menopause is a big thing that leads to depression too but my emphasis today is how to prevent depression not treatment, “he said.
Abah however, commended the convener for providing a platform to discuss depression and its management .
Participants shared their personal experiences with depression, including Mrs. Blessing Olotu, who encouraged women to speak out and seek help when needed.
Other participants highlighted the physical and emotional toll of depression, including sudden aging, sadness, and loss of interest in activities.
The forum provided a safe space for women to share their stories, receive support, and learn coping strategies for managing depression.
Over 100 women attended the programme. Highlights of the event were discussions, opinions, suggestions, questions and answers by the resource person and participants respectively.
