Marriage is teamwork. And it requires both the partners to put in their individual efforts to make things work.
Just as a woman would want a ‘good husband, a man too would want a good wife.
Modern, progressive women may have a tough time accepting the idea of a ‘good wife’.
What is more, not all women are wife materials, as there are unique characteristics that make a lady to qualify as a loving wife.
Ayaba Rukatat Abiodun Adeyemi (Ayaba Oloko) is one of those few women who are wife materials and possess unique characteristics that qualify them as a caring, loving and submissive wives to their husbands.
You want to know how?
Ayaba Rukatat Abiodun Adeyemi’s family is her priority. She is always the source of inspiration to both her husband, His Imperial Majesty, the Alaafin of Oyo, and royal children.
She supports her Royal husband by encouraging him
She respects her Royal husband, because the Queen knows that every man needs to be admired and respected, since all men interprete respect as love
She is a loving wife who also submits to her husband. That doesn’t mean she is a slave or inferior but simply because she holds her Royal husband to esteem
She takes care of her attractiveness. Her desire is to be sure that she is continually healthy and attractive to her partner.
Ayaba Rukatat Abiodun Adeyemi expresses her love to her Royal husband, as she is committed to spend a lifetime with her Royal husband through nuptials.
Besides, the amiable Queen’s relationship with Iku Baba Yeye thrives on the expression of that love, among other emotions. So, she does not only love her Royal husband, but shows him how much she means to him.
In any relationship, communication is critical. And marriage is no exception.
Queen Rukatat Abiodun Adeyemi allows open communication in her marriage. This means that she tells her handsome, awesome and a phenomena Royal husband what she thinks or feels and what she expects of him.
She talks to her husband – ask, say and discuss. She avoids the silent treatment, which can make things worse.
She doesn’t leave her Royal husband guessing about what he wants. Rather, she figures out what her Royal husband really wants while being honest to him , and then communicate that to him.
Ayaba Rukatat Abiodun Adeyemi is of the conviction that the best marriage is the one where the couple is each other’s best friend.
The love between Kabiyesi Oba ( Dr.) Lamido Olayiwola Adeyemi 111, and his heartthrob, Ayaba Rukayat is deep, strong and genuine.
This is because Ayaba Rukayat allows a healthy friendship to develop between her and her beloved Royal husband.
Ayaba Rukayat respects the person her Royal husband is, not for what he does for her or the family, but because she knows that mutual respect in the marriage is a must.
This reflects in the way she speaks and behaves with each other. She neither belittles, humiliates, strike nor harm the Royal husband, whether in private or public.
However, on Sunday, 26th of September, 2021, the pretty Queen Rukatat Abiodun Adeyemi clocked 40 years, as families, friends, relations, palace workers and sides, including members of the Oyo Traditional Council (Oyo Mesi), and the husband, who is a Paramount Ruler gathered inside the rehabilitated Agbala Ogun hall to felicitate with the birthday Girl and a Woman of Valour.
In his short but thought provoking and heart warming address, husband of the celebrant and the Iku Baba Yeye, said, ” If you ever forget how amazing you are, I will always be here to remind you. A special person like you deserves a special birthday prayer. Your continuous positive vibe is inspiring, remain steadfast. You are one of the most optimistic people I know, continue to reach for success.
“Though you have blinded me with your love, I really don’t mind because I can see a beautiful future with you.
People watch romantic movies that show true love, others read stories or poems about it; but as for me, I only need to look at you to know I have it in my life.
Undeniable is my connection with you, unbelievable is how much I love you, and unbreakable is the bond that we have formed with each other. Have a wonderful birthday, my love. You have turned me from a boy into a man. I am now content, happy and I feel invincible with you by my side. Happy birthday, my darling.
“I must have done something incredible in my past life because I was rewarded with you as my partner. I love you, now and forever. Happy birthday, sweetheart.
I love you for your big heart, the patience you show an imperfect man like me, and for making everything right again. Happy birthday.
“There is no denying that you are beautiful, no denying that you are kissable and your smile is magical. Happy birthday to my special lady.
Looking into your eyes, I see a passionate fire that burns bright. My love for you is utterly insatiable. Happy birthday, darling”.
The elated Queen Rukatat Abiodun Adeyemi said, ” Iku Baba Yeye, My dear Royal husband, words to describe you: Wonderful, amazing, unique, incomparable, handsome, strong, incredible. I could go on forever. You are the most awesome, wonderful, outrageously funny, courageous, handsome and great hubby you are.
“Whenever I’m having a bad day, I know that I can count on your love and affection to cheer me up. You make me feel special every day. Today, I want to take the opportunity to make you feel extra special too.
” My Royal sweetheart, you are the most kind-hearted and thoughtful husband alive. Loving you is always easy. You have shown me what it means to have the perfect marriage. Life is so precious and should be treasured. I treasure every moment with you and I’m so grateful to you Darling.
“The sun won’t shine if I am not with you. The days are long when you’re not close to me. I am hopeless and scared when I don’t feel your touch. You are the husband I will always love. I love the way you love me. Through the good and bad times, you continue to be by my side. I couldn’t have asked for a better husband”.
Lastly Ayaba Rukayat Abiodun Adeyemi had this to say to his loving Royal husband, “I am so appreciative for all of the blessings in my life. I have friends, family, health, and so on., but the one blessing I am forever grateful for is knowing and loving you. You are a perfect gift from God. My Royal sweetheart!”
